Why A Dating Coach?
You may wonder why anyone would need a dating coach. It is such a common, everyday thing that many people think it should just come naturally or be easy. The fact that is isn't easy, all too often gets internalized as a personal deficiency. But there's nothing wrong with you.
Here's why you could use a good dating coach. Dating is hard. Dating is hard because people are complicated. Sorting through the complexities with an objective person (who also happens to be a 20-year psychologist and relationship expert) will help you understand everything you need to know about you in order to successfully navigate the dating and relationship realm. Understanding yourself and how you interact with others is the key to identifying suitable partners and building life-long relationships.
Let's face it. You don't know what you don't know. Your understanding of the problem is limited by your highly subjective personal narrative; a narrative that is also heavily influenced by other major players in your life (aka parents, siblings, teachers, spiritual/religious guides, peers, etc...). Our historical experience leads to the development of patterns that may have been quite adaptive in the past, but limit our options and don't fit with our current circumstance.
So, you can keep trying to play to the algorithms and mold yourself to what the Twitterverse deems appropriate. Or, you can evolve your personal process and lay a foundation for personal and relational happiness that will really lead to what you're looking for. Love in the way that suits you.
Here's why you could use a good dating coach. Dating is hard. Dating is hard because people are complicated. Sorting through the complexities with an objective person (who also happens to be a 20-year psychologist and relationship expert) will help you understand everything you need to know about you in order to successfully navigate the dating and relationship realm. Understanding yourself and how you interact with others is the key to identifying suitable partners and building life-long relationships.
Let's face it. You don't know what you don't know. Your understanding of the problem is limited by your highly subjective personal narrative; a narrative that is also heavily influenced by other major players in your life (aka parents, siblings, teachers, spiritual/religious guides, peers, etc...). Our historical experience leads to the development of patterns that may have been quite adaptive in the past, but limit our options and don't fit with our current circumstance.
So, you can keep trying to play to the algorithms and mold yourself to what the Twitterverse deems appropriate. Or, you can evolve your personal process and lay a foundation for personal and relational happiness that will really lead to what you're looking for. Love in the way that suits you.